Save Money, Relationships and Yourself by Learning to Self-Correct.
Self-Correction
Not being able to self-correct can hurt a business's success. The ability to adapt has become crucial for both companies and individuals. Adjusting helps us stay strong in tough times, innovate, and learn from our mistakes instead of letting them trap us.
Some see correction as punishment, but it’s a valuable teacher. It offers meaningful feedback that helps us grow and improve. Hebrews 12:6 (Amplified Bible) states: “For the Lord disciplines and corrects those whom He loves…” Making a change can prevent failure and lead to success.
How Do You Course Correct?
When you need to adjust, consider the paths available for correction. It’s helpful to seek guidance from trusted friends, mentors, or consultants. However, self-correction is often quicker and doesn’t rely on others. I’ve chosen to focus on my ability to self-correct. This means holding myself accountable to who I want to be. It requires honest self-awareness and humility. You need to assess how others perceive you and ask yourself if you acted correctly.
“In a large house there are articles not only of gold and silver but also of wood and clay; some are for special purposes and some for common use. Those who cleanse themselves from the latter will be instruments for special purposes, made holy, useful to the Master and prepared to do any good work.”
2 Timothy 2:20-21 NIV
This verse encourages you to move away from habits that are inconsistent with your destiny and who you were created to be. Don’t let a bad tone, attitude, or decision dictate your life. Instead, self-correct and choose actions that help you thrive.
Blind Spots
Self-correction can be challenging because we all have blind spots. We often overlook what needs to change. For me, having a relationship with the Holy Spirit has been the best way to correct my course. The Holy Spirit consistently brings awareness to my attitude and behavior. Like a coach, I aim to nurture God’s voice in my life. It’s not always easy, and it can be humbling, but I’ve never regretted listening. Sometimes I’ve self-corrected successfully, while other times I’ve faced consequences for not doing so. Those who avoid self-correction may experience setbacks in their finances, family, or health.
When I pray, I ask the Holy Spirit to guide me. I receive corrections and adjustments in return. I can choose to accept this guidance, but I believe that being humble and obedient invites God into the situation. This pattern is evident in the verse:
“If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land.”
2 Chronicles 7:14 NIV
Case Study: My Mistake
I once asked my team for a specific report, but they said it would take time due to its complexity. I was unhappy with the timeline. They offered a draft sooner, but it wouldn't be complete. During the meeting, I read the draft and, frustrated, crumpled it and tossed it in the trash. Seeing my team’s faces made me realize I could have reacted better. Back at my office, I took time to pray. The Holy Spirit challenged my attitude. I returned to my team and apologized for my behavior. I regretted my initial reaction, but I’m grateful for how the Holy Spirit helped me fix the situation. Those two employees have been with us for over 20 years. Is it because of that one moment? Probably not but committing to the process of being refined by The Holy Spirit has shaped the culture of my business and fosters good relationships.
Think about how you communicate with others or negotiate deals. What impact does it have? In the U.S., we spend millions on consulting to improve our skills as bosses and employees. I encourage you to embrace the coaching of the Holy Spirit. I’ve never regretted it.